EVERY week, Lanarkshire’s top clairvoyant Colette shares her vision exclusively with the Times & Speaker.
Readers are invited to send their problems, dilemmas and even dreams to Colette’s postbag.
She then uses tarot cards and her gift to provide an answer.
Here’s this week’s top question and answer -
Q: I had a Christmas night out one night stand with a married co-worker.
I had liked him for a while and there was a chemistry between us. I know he felt it too.
Now he says he was drunk and has told me not to text or e-mail him. I can’t believe he doesn’t want to see me again.
Some of my other co-workers have been very nasty to me and I am getting angry now. I am not some silly idiot.
Can you see if he still likes me and if there is a chance he will come back to me?
Should I tell his wife and get him that way?
A: I hope this letter strikes fear into any married person reading it!
This man was so wrong to have succumbed to temptation and I do see that he is regretting it big style, not just for what it could do to his marriage, but also to his professional standing at work.
He will not ‘come back to you’ as there is nothing to ‘come back’ to.
It was a one night stand fuelled by drink and high spirits. He will need to live with this.
If you go ahead and spill the beans you will cause so much sadness and hurt and lack of trust in his marriage but it will not break it.
He has family and responsibilities and also does love his wife.
You have a choice here - let it go and hope that it will be yesterday’s news asap, or cause trouble that will find its way back to you in both work and in potential relationships. It is called karma.
I am not for one minute excusing him, but I do feel that he will learn from this and so must you.
New love will come to you this year and will be loving and good. Don’t let your loneliness turn you into a figure of hate.
For more and details of how to contact Colette, see this week’s Times & Speaker.